What is Maturity...........

What is maturity? To me it is the ability to control our emotions and settle differences without leaving marks and traces of bad impacts on a relation... it is more like a synonym to patience.

Whenever there is a conflict or misunderstanding in a relation, there is always one factor that makes the difference and plays the make or break role it is carrying attitude….
At times I feel maturity is more like discovering our own selves within us… making us feel that we have earned more wisdom from our own experiences. It does happens many a times when we believe in someone so deeply misunderstandings arises …maturity comes in the picture when we don’t have to feel for it…… some mis understandings are needed for good understanding.


Life throws more challenges on us that we anticipate but it’s or own perseverance, our ability to sweat out a situation and strengthening our capacity to face unpleasantness and frustration, discomfort and defeat, without complaint or feeling shattered from within

I guess maturity does not come with age…. It comes from experiences it is a more like humbleness…empowering us enough to say, "I was wrong." And, when right, we as the mature person need not endorse our satisfaction of saying, "I told you so."

Maturity is the ability to make a decision and stand by it. It means dependability, keeping one's word, coming through in a crisis. The immature are masters of the alibi... that... is... they will end up explaining situations to safeguard their fragile ego… mentally they are confused and disorganized in their thoughts more like they are lost in the dark corridors of their minds trying to collect all possibilities to feel empowered and overcome the self guilt. Immaturity escorts a person nowhere but to a maze of broken promises and lost trusts….

In short, Maturity to me ,is a the art of living in peace where we don’t have to change, and having the courage to change and win back the situation if it has raised from the challenges… it is more like attaining the wisdom to know the difference between the two ( maturity and immaturity )