In life, it's great when you get to come through for someone…..
Of course, it still doesn't always work out the way you'd hope…… In the end, you learn to treasure the times when things go your way……Even if happiness forgets you a little bit…….you never completely forget about it…
I guess the greatest happiness lies in being there for the ones you love when they don't. And most importantly, you learn to accept that some things are out of your hands.
But still, with so much of life left up to chance, you can't help but look back and wonder.... What if things had been different...?
Some people say everything comes down to luck.... What I believe is that the most minor event -- even a smile given to a stranger ….. can affect everything. Because once that seemingly insignificant event happens.... It sets everything else in motion. You never know it might be the only sunshine he sees all day and insignificant events can lead to significant events……….
In life, it's hard to avoid letting people down. Whether it's someone you made a promise to... ...or someone you love... ...or even letting down someone you barely knew at all.
In the end, it's the "what ifs" that hurt the most. Like, what if things had gone a little differently?...... in such a way ……. that you are bound to believe ….. it’s just not the fate but it’s the coincidence….. One of Nature’s ways of making a way for you yet remaining anonymous…………
Me, I don't believe in fate. I believe we have more control than we think, and that every action has a reaction. After all.... actions are the best interpretations of our thoughts…I guess its all about trusting the moment when you couple the idea with action otherwise it will never get any bigger than the brain cell it has occupied.….
We being humans, suddenly go into quick reverse as the day's events are wound back… when having memories as our reserves……it helps in diffusing facts and the best part is it always builds around the events unnoticed all the time…....
The most minor event -- even a smile -- can change everything…….. Anything at all……. Like a radiance in the window of your face that tells people that you’re home….. Something unbreakable which can mend broken hearts… or may be they are the kisses of your soul …….But it again depends ….. because these smiles are creating a beautiful past which is never dead, it will never be past …..Sometimes for the better……… Even if it doesn't seem like it at first……....
Monday, January 19, 2009
Saturday, January 17, 2009
What are we willing to risk ?????
I guess it all comes down to what we're willing to risk. For some of us, it's our feelings.... For others, it's our future....
For me, it was taking a risk, period. Even if that means starting with my very first step.
For me making a decision implies that there are alternative choices to be considered, and in such a case I want not only to identify as many of these alternatives as possible but to choose the one that has the highest probability of success or effectiveness and best fits with my goals, desires, lifestyle, values, and so on………
When is it right to be sensible in daily life? At what time do I know when change is necessary to progress in the direction I need to go in?.... am I holding back a lot or its just that I am not willing to take one risk which can take me somewhere I might get the happiness I duely deserve....
Sometimes I feel being reasonable in my actions and decision making means I am experiencing the present I live everyday. I guess its low risk because it is simply continuance, doing what I have always done the way I have always done it.
I guess my life has become stagnant because...... Life……..its all about decisions and consequences or reactions to situations I am facing today ….For better or worse, I guess my life is based off of the decisions I made yesterday and in the past.
If my decisions have created a better day for me today, then I CONGRATULATE my self for that and APPLAUD my success!
If not, then without a decision today to change tomorrow will be the same as today and yesterday.
To wrap the crap I guess ACTION is required. Any situation I face with today will not change unless I change what I am doing NOW for tomorrow!
For me, it was taking a risk, period. Even if that means starting with my very first step.
For me making a decision implies that there are alternative choices to be considered, and in such a case I want not only to identify as many of these alternatives as possible but to choose the one that has the highest probability of success or effectiveness and best fits with my goals, desires, lifestyle, values, and so on………
When is it right to be sensible in daily life? At what time do I know when change is necessary to progress in the direction I need to go in?.... am I holding back a lot or its just that I am not willing to take one risk which can take me somewhere I might get the happiness I duely deserve....
Sometimes I feel being reasonable in my actions and decision making means I am experiencing the present I live everyday. I guess its low risk because it is simply continuance, doing what I have always done the way I have always done it.
I guess my life has become stagnant because...... Life……..its all about decisions and consequences or reactions to situations I am facing today ….For better or worse, I guess my life is based off of the decisions I made yesterday and in the past.
If my decisions have created a better day for me today, then I CONGRATULATE my self for that and APPLAUD my success!
If not, then without a decision today to change tomorrow will be the same as today and yesterday.
To wrap the crap I guess ACTION is required. Any situation I face with today will not change unless I change what I am doing NOW for tomorrow!
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Seven Deadly Sins...
| Greed: | Very Low | |
| Gluttony: | Low | |
| Wrath: | Very Low | |
| Sloth: | Low | |
| Envy: | Low | |
| Lust: | Low | |
| Pride: | Medium |
Take the Seven Deadly Sins Quiz
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Philosophy about life....
"It's my life"…No mortal has a right to control it ….as I have only one chance to live so,
i don’t allow anybody to live my life……avail your life & live it with success & happiness …….it does not matter how long you live,,,,,,,,but more important is that how you live?
if you live happy, you will die gladly.,,,,,,live & let live others.
it's really indecent to interfere on other's life.
be mature, descent, practical & serious about life's theory.
have a decent fun in life so you will control your boredom but,
with sense that life is not fun!
i don’t allow anybody to live my life……avail your life & live it with success & happiness …….it does not matter how long you live,,,,,,,,but more important is that how you live?
if you live happy, you will die gladly.,,,,,,live & let live others.
it's really indecent to interfere on other's life.
be mature, descent, practical & serious about life's theory.
have a decent fun in life so you will control your boredom but,
with sense that life is not fun!
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
some days are worst than the others.....
....I guess the best you can hope for is that you took something from it...Anything.... ...Anything at all....
....Even if it's just taking the time to lie in the grass and think about all the things you still have left to do...........
....Even if it's just taking the time to lie in the grass and think about all the things you still have left to do...........
Monday, December 8, 2008
To most people.. it might have seemed like nothing had changed .. but... it had a little.. story dosen't end here its about the day we realize its all about admitting we are not heroic.. when we have always thought of being heroic of all...
In order to be successful in life.... we have to accept the fact that everything around us changes..... all the time...... Once you have reached the point where you can accept......
it is time to adapt to the world around you. You only have control over your own mind..... and for some of us...... that’s debatable.....
I strongly believe that the relationship you have with yourself impacts greatly on the relations you are able to form with others
There is no need to fear change. Change is good! As I look back at my life I have made the greatest accomplishments when a change has occured in my life.
Although at the time I may have felt that it was the end of the world, I realized later that the change was for a reason and if I hadn't accepted the change I may not be where I am today.
If you are going through some sort of change right now take some time to think what is the lesson here and how can I make this a change for the better.
In order to be successful in life.... we have to accept the fact that everything around us changes..... all the time...... Once you have reached the point where you can accept......
it is time to adapt to the world around you. You only have control over your own mind..... and for some of us...... that’s debatable.....
I strongly believe that the relationship you have with yourself impacts greatly on the relations you are able to form with others
There is no need to fear change. Change is good! As I look back at my life I have made the greatest accomplishments when a change has occured in my life.
Although at the time I may have felt that it was the end of the world, I realized later that the change was for a reason and if I hadn't accepted the change I may not be where I am today.
If you are going through some sort of change right now take some time to think what is the lesson here and how can I make this a change for the better.
Bad News....
Its funny how people take bad news.... in different ways.. some people have a visceral reaction..... some people go into denial .. and others... just walk away......................
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